No Expectations

People often expect too much. Many of us really believe they deserve something. We often expect other people to feel the same what we do. And when our expectations get ruined, we fall into a great pit of depression and endless sadness.

Today I woke up and realized that what I had seen was nothing more but a night dream. It was exactly what I want. It was exactly what I’d be happy to expect. But I am not so brave to expect it in my reality. Well, I may hope. As one of my friends told me today “no one forbids us to dream. We should not give up”. I don’t know if I am ready to use this statement in my life. It’s not that I would not dream. I’ve told you in my previous message what a dreamer I am.

Once again I have realized that no expectations (don’t confuse it with no dreaming!) does make you free of unnecessary blues. It’s better to do everything without any expectation. No big ideas of the future to be formed the way you want it. Sometimes it’s just better to enjoy your present moment. Now. And it doesn’t matter if your dream is silly. Don’t expect it to come true. But go for it. Enjoy its melody, the melody of what you love doing.

I’m grateful for having no real expectations. I’m breathing now. I’m loving now. And tomorrow will be tomorrow. No idea what it will bring. I hope something new and happy. But now I’m warmed by my happiness.